Through
wisdom a house is built, And by understanding it is established; By
knowledge the rooms are filled With all precious and pleasant riches. Proverbs 24:3-4
To make a home pleasant and inviting you have to create some
order and beauty. When there is no organization, there will be chaos. Your home
should be neat and clean. Everything should have a proper place.
Absolutely no clutter should be allowed. No it doesn’t have to look as
though it is in a magazine or you are competing for a prize for the best
looking home. You are not competing with anyone. You want to make your house a
safe haven for your family. This is your palace next to heaven and it should be
treated as such.
If your home is dull and dark, you can’t possibly expect to have
a loving and inviting atmosphere. Adding beauty to your home does not have to
be expensive. You can be creative and make your own crafts and accessories.
Fill your home with things of significance to you and your family. You can add
personal touches such as family photos, paintings, drawing, etc. The
sentimental value will add joy to your home more than anything you could ever
purchase. There should be a nice aroma flowing throughout. You can use candles,
oils, baked goodies, or use some of God’s beauty and bring in flowers, or other
natural items.
When someone leaves your home, you should want them to remember
the atmosphere instead of the quality of furniture material possessions you
have or if you had a common theme throughout the room.
Lastly, your home should possess a positive atmosphere for
positive learning. This is the place your family will spend quality time
together as well as learning and growing in God and education. Therefore,
negative influences should not be allowed.
You should be striving to set a pleasing atmosphere for your
household on a daily basis because activities are forever changing. Don’t get
into the habit of thinking because you have a nice atmosphere one day that it
is going to remain that way every day.
My prayer for you is to work diligently to ensure your dwelling
place has an atmosphere where those who enter will feel the love and warmth you
have for God as well as one another, and are looking forward to returning.
Lady J
